The World Around me !!!

I had no idea of what I had read when I saw that a country like Japan was tattered along their coasts. When a tsunami happened in India , (Dec 2004) , I wasn't aware of the consequences and the life threat. I hardly read newspapers, but after a certain time we tend to keep locked with the news.
The calamity that shook the world was very close to my heart. I had watched the footages of the disaster for a long time and wondered that there was something which is going to come... the end of the era.. a new beginning has to begin...!!
Life is as short as the flower, which blooms up in a moment and next moment it is no more.
There were many things which came to my mind while watching the calamity that had happened.

What would be our state if we lived not the next moment?
What would happen if the world around us became blank and void ?
Could I PAUSE for a while and do the undo ?

All these seem like a big question , which could never be answered....

Life treats you well when we go in accordance to its rules...if we mess with Life, it surely does the same... same goes with Nature... and the ultimate invisible ruler, who watches every walk of our life, knows what we are !! 

Today!!

Today might be the last day... a last chance which we would never get... a last hope and a last wish which we can tell...an unknown distress which is left behind can get an opportunity to be sorted... Life might not be the same everyday... life is all about compromises but admitting your mistake and moving forward gives true meaning to life.We might not get this last chance but can grab it and make ourselves free from which we've Assumed...

Unleashing the true meaning ..... for Life !

Life always needs a miracle to happen and we long and crave for one to happen everyday of our life. It's not words which make memories , its feelings and true said messages which would make an impact.

Life is to tread a undiscovred road which will lead to gates of heaven.

A walk which would just keep on and on and on ... unfolding the mystries and love of the Almighty.

Thank You Lord  for gifting me with everything that's good !

Life... ?

Its so natural for a person to get attached to someone whom we never know.. ! 

Can you ever dream about a person who keeps poping up in your dreams and try to ask unexpected questions and then try to say to you that "I'll be ther for you !" .. hmm it may seem to be a mystery and it will continue to be also! .. Did you ever ponder over for a moment that we've been living this life not to eat drink and enjoy life,  but so see much more than that  ? Did you ever understand that we've been always entangled and twisted in our relationships and at every walk of our life , we see many people walking in and out of our life.. and we still try to frame the footsteps of only a few of them. These footsteps are which are framed are hard to change and very difficult to forget all thru' our lives..

Ever since there were uncountable moments that we spend... we try to remember only those which have pircked our souls somewhere down the line.. We tend to be happy with life always forgetting what went wrong and remembering to enjoi the way life gifts us, but when we remember a bad incident, it makes even the happy soul to drink the cup of pain and tears...

There are always twists and turns in our lives and life is not always a "properly constructed road" on which we can happily tread and see only the workers working on the damaged road..

It's we who need to work for our life's construction.. Its hard to sit and think to construct the correct route map for our goal , but it always a good way to just keep walking along the path and then setting the unfurnished road into pathway of success. There are thorns and thistels  along with budding roses.. Its all about your design which makes life a COMPLETE SUCCESS.. We need to decide who walks into our live (whether its a person or a problem ) and never repend on what has happned. Be happy for eveything that we've got in life.. the best way to be happy is to compare ourselves with the underperveledged who have no voice to speak out and cry for help...

Life is Gift of God .. Treasure Every moment of it... God is busy taking pictures of us.. so we need to be happy ...!

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Life goes through changes so fast, you think your life is great, than one of your best friends dies. Then you think you found someone you truly love, only to figure out, she doesn't love you back. You cry and cry and cry, but nothing changes. You realize, that you must accept things for what they are, and what they have made you become. Everything in life changes you in some way. Even the smallest things. If you do not accept these changes, you do not accept yourself. For through these changes brings new and greater things to you, making you wiser, as time progresses. To avoid these changes is a loss. You only live your life once. Do not waste a minute of it avoiding things. Let them come to you, and learn from them. There's always tomorrow.

"Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being "in love" which any of us can convince ourselves we are.

Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Your mother and I had it, we had roots that grew towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two.
- Captain Corelli's Mandolin. "Love is the beauty of the soul."

Ecclesiastes 3:11- He hath made every thing beautiful in his time ...

Think of the time when you were left-out,isolated and deserted by your loved ones and you had no place to go and cover your face and weep loudly? Did you ever come across a time when you could just gulp your tears and cry without making sounds?

Every situation we encounter in life is pre-planned and is destined by God. If we are in such a situation we will be able to understand others well. Every thing is beautiful in its own place. I feel that even being alone is apt for certain situations. People may never understand our feelings but there is one good friend who will always walk with you, talk with you and always there for us, stretching his hand out towards us,even though life had deprived us of all that we are eligible for or has not been right in what we deserved for!

It is said that God will give all that is due to us in the due time, He is not a partial God who will differentiate among His own creation. He has gifted every one equally. There are many people who have never tasted the feeling of sorrow or unhappiness ,I personally feel that they are really unlucky to see all shades in life. God is not a moron person who has just give us a day or just has given one season to enjoy. He has made life so colourful. He has added all the brightness so that mankind can enjoy and cherish them all throughout his life. If our parents (who are so earthly , and are just like us - made from dust of the earth) give us the best, how much more care will our Heavenly Father take in making things so special and is it not His plan which situation would suit us at what time??

God makes everything beautiful in His time.... He'll always hold us , but its we who always are slipping from our paths. He has never hated anyone, He hates sin but loves sinners. He is full of compassion and always ready to look when His child will come back and cry for Him. He is always waiting patiently to look when we will call unto Him so that He will send His angels to rescue! Isn't is amazing to see that God cares for a person who is as wretched as he can be ? I think even our parents , these days will not spare us if we did something wrong , and the very next second they will cajole us. Same is our God , who has been so kind in making us what we are.

Just ponder on the time when we ate an ice-cream which we never liked , or our friend did some thing which we hated the most and when they never cared for our feelings and our words ? How would it feel , will you not be hurt and the heart that care for would it not be bruised ? God also wants us to never nag and grumble on the situation and the surroundings in which we are !He will will feel bad on us and we don't have any right to Hurt a person who loves us and Has given life's best things.

I dint know what happened to me and why I have correlated everything here... But one thing of sure i would like to convey is that We are GOD'S Awesome Creation and God had planned everything perfectly in our lives. Even though we are in bad/worst situation we should never pollute God and make Him feel sorry that he has created us.

I am the BEST creation and GOD has taken a great time in making me.....

Best way to feel happy even when you are sad....

~ Listen to songs that give life and make your adrenaline go high...
~ Recollect all your sweet memories that you had with your loved ones and friends...
~ Go out of our own world and mingle with people who hurt you the most....
~ Never compromise for anything.....
~ If u are a food lover/chocolate lover/ice cream lover eat them and eat them as though it is exclusively made for you and you have the sole ownership.. Enjoi whatever you eat.
~ Never show your weakness...... ALWAYS CRY WHEN YOU ARE ALONE... BECAUSE VERY FEW PEOPLE UNDERSTAND THE VALUE OF YOUR TEARS.... never be lousy to protect yourself.

~ THINK OF GOD's ABUNDANT BLESSINGS that HE has BESTOWED ON US .... LIFE IS ONE OF THE BIGGEST GIFT WHICH HE HAD GIVEN US.

~ LOVE GOD .... HE alone is worthy of your love and HE will be the only one who will reciprocate back with YOU in a very EFFECTIVE manner.....

~ GIVE GOD WHAT IS RIGHT AND NOT WHAT IS LEFT... HE's THE BEST....


~ The secret of life is not just to live but have something worthwhile to live for. We only live once but if we live right, once is enough

An Emotional message that i found very true when i was reading.....

Dont you hate it when you treat someone with love and affection but never get anything in return?

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This is something that really bothers me. If I don't feel close to someone than I tend to be a little careless and distant. However, when I actually start developing a bond with him/her I begin having strong feelings of affection and would constantly do things trying to make that person feel happy and loved. I'm talking about anyone who you might feel very strongly attached to such as friends, family, boyfriend, girlfriend etc. What really bugs me is when you often try to be thoughtful but never receive anything in return. It annoys me so much! You do these things to make this person happy but they dont care about your happiness or for any of your emotional needs. I mean I can understand if that person is always busy but than again can it really be so difficult to think of someone else at least once in a while. I believe that you should get the same love and attention that you are giving to others. I would certainly expect something in return and it's not that I'm being selfish or doing things only to benefit myself in some way but I feel that when you do things in effort to make someone else happy than it's a way of showing them that you care and if this is so difficult for anyone to do than perhaps they dont care about you as much as they say. I enjoy it very much when something I do makes the people I care for feel good about themselves but than again if they dont even bother to do the same than it would make you feel unloved and unable to get yourself to keep doing more for them than they would for you. I am not really a demanding person but when it comes to such matters than yes I guess I fit into this category. Anyway I dont think that you should wait until that person gets upset to the point where they have to mention something about it because they feel a lack of love and appreciation coming from the one who means the world to them. It's not an easy thing to confront anyone about this matter either. The truth is that even if you do manage to say something it wont make much of a difference if any at all. When people act this way I feel that they're being inconsiderate or just cannot get themselves to sympathize with you. Something like this would surely cause me to grow cold and I would need to hide into my shell trying to protect myself from them. The most annoying part is when they act like it's not a big deal and try to shrug it off. Not only that but they add things such as "I really care about you" into the conversation which confuses me to no end. I hate liars and besides how is the other person supposed to know that you really care about them if you seem to value them the same as dirt. Most of the time I have noticed that people just do more to please you when there's something they want. You hope that they'd want to do it because they care but often that's not the case at all. How careless can another person possibly get? It's just showing how cold he/she is. Some people may say that not everyone is good at showing emotions but than again can it really be so hard to provide someone with reassurance and showing them that they actually mean something to you unless of course that's not really how you feel about that person in the first place. Tiny little thoughtful gestures really wont kill anyone. Well I guess a lot of this has to do with how different people are from each other. Almost always the individuals I have been closest to have had personalities much different from my own. Such differences have always gotten in the way causing conflict to arise. It's not that any person is right or wrong but if their views of life contradict than feelings are at risk of getting injured. In my opinion it's better to try and get close to those similar to yourself because this way there will be a better understanding from both sides and feelings would be spared.

Treasure hunt

Just think of a day when you woke up recollecting the dream that you drempt !! ...
hmmmm I don't know how many of us really think of what we have drempt.Life is too short and there are many things that surround us once we are involved in our daily schedule.
If you are the one who wants to travel somewhere where no one can disturb you , where you just want to gaze at the wonders of Nature probably you do not have penny in you pocket but dreams are the best place which will help us carry all through.
Life is a good teacher and dreams are the best part of life. It's not that we need to always laze around and never work.
My best time is dreaming and recollecting them as soon as I am off from my bed. It makes me feel good when Life has gifted the wonderful night's sleep and a imaginary place where i can be all my self, where no one will be behind me nor will any body disturb me.
Dreams are the best part of my life. I have had many a times recollected my dreams and have shared them with my friends.
Life just moves on....
We should take time and recollect every moment of life..
So give wings to dreams....and fly to the utmost part of the world...Like the butterfly

Silence .... ?? ? ?

This is one word which I can never practice in my life ....
Life is full of color, vigor and filled with joy and happiness..... So what is the need to keep silence ?
This is an unrecognized word that I can digest.There were many times that made me silent but I can't stay with it for too many days.Living in silence is like suiciding one's own self.
Turning my pages back, I can just count a handful of times that i sat silent and this was so bad, miserable.
Our life id in our hands. We can enjoy it to the full core or just sit mumb always and never utter a word or two even if your value is degraded.
Silence is a silent killer. It will take long time to make you weak and when you are in distress you will have no one around you to support you. You will not have any courage to even stand up for yourself.It is true to be silent but it is not true to remain always silent.Once you are silent you are trying to suppress all your feeling sin your heart.Feeling if suppressed,stir up strife against the person whom your angry with.Life indeed is not bed of roses but you have to make those roses to spread out the fragrance to the outside world , once you look at the thorns you will never be in a position to enjoy the beauty of the rose.
Life is what to want it to be. God has not been partial to anyone, nor has he given a person less happiness. He is universal Creator of everyone and has taken lot of care in making every one so special that no one has every thought about this! God is never partial, we are responsible of designing our lives and we should never give a chance so that in the long run we have to repent on ourselves. So live life to the fullest. Use some curves called "smile" so that the straight and boring lives will get a new look. This will indeed make us feel good Because God has made every one special and God loves you.