They call it the "Quarter-life Crisis". It is when you stop going along with the crowd and start realizing that there are many things about yourself that you didn't know and may not like. You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared because you barely know where you are now. You start realizing that peple are selfish and that, maybe, those friends that you thought you were so close to aren't exactly the greatest people you have ever met, and the people you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones. What you don't recognize is that they are realizing that too, and aren't really cold, catty, mean or insincere, but that they are as confused as you. You look at your job....and it is not even close to what you thought you would be doing, or maybe you are looking for a job and realizing that you are going to have to start at the bottom and that scares you. Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what other are doing and find yourself judging more than usual because suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and are constantly adding things to your list of what is acceptable and what isn't. One minute, you are insecure and then the next, secure. You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone and scared and confused. Suddenly, change is the enemy and you try and cling on to the past with dear life, but soon realize that the past is drifting further and further away, and there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward. You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do such damage to you. Or you lay in bed and wonder why you can't meet anyone decent enough that you want to get to know better. Or maybe you love someone but love someone else too and cannot figure out why your are doing this because you know that you aren't a bad person. One nightstands and random hook ups start to look cheap. Getting wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic. You go through the same emotions and questions over and over, and talk with your friends about the same topics because you cannnot seem to make a decision. You worry about loans, money, the future and making a life for yourself....and while winning the race would be great, right now you'd just like to be a contender! What you may not realize is that everyone reading this relates to it. We are in our best of times and our worst of times, trying as hard as we can to figure this whole thing out.............
posted by rolyn
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Once reading all this , t'was as clear as it cud be, Life is definitely not a bad option though it is being manipulate with various other issues. But I was exactly in this situation last year. I kept pondering over and over.. pondering as to what is my future... the friends who promised to stay with me are now just become the shadows of my past.. there's but a lil happiness that i met them and cherished the most wonderful moments in life. Happiness always gets a load of sadness with it and so is the case with sadness.. It just moves... a 1 tear is more worthwhile than the rest 1000 tears which have not been recognized well!!! You really feel nice if there is someone next to you holding your hand and pampering you all the time.. every one needs this affection and is always filled with emotions which they cannot share.
Life is more of adjustments and compromises.. We have to sacrifice our love at some point , sacrifice our emotions and let them sink deep into our heart.
Life is an en-sample that we that we set out to many around us. It cud be good or bad..
Life's an ocean but we concentrate more on the lil drops of happiness and comfort and lil words of appreciation that can make us happy and remain in the pages of our life.
Life is God's Gift and we don't have any right to "name" gifts given to us.
Life is all about meeting many people in life.. It's how well we stay with them and when there's no reciprocation of deeds and emotions.... what should we do??? (Keep pondering 'ver this)
Life is a blank sheet ........ We have to fill in all colors to look pretty exciting....... Black 'n' White colors are not the only option in Life.
Life's all about transactions where we have to be accountable to every thing we do (be it verbal or thru' deeds .... and I am the worst person who never think before speaking, thereby hurting many )
Life's ................................................... only road that will show where we have to travel...
Life is all about making decisions , few for us , few for others.
Life's gamble .... so play it with ethics.... Hack it well.......
Life is what we make it by our words and ideas.. what we speak is what happens in our life...
Faith is the seed of successful life
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