Positives..... ?? ?? ? ??

ABLE EAGER KIND RATIONAL ACCEPTING EASY-GOING

LEARNING REALISTIC ACCURATE EFFICIENT LEISURELY

REASONABLE ADAPTABLE EMPATHIC LIGHT-HEARTED

REFLECTIVE ADVENTUROUS ENERGETIC LIKABLE RELAXED

AFFECTIONATE ENTERPRISING LOGICAL RELIABLE ALERT

ENTHUSIASTIC LOVABLE RESERVED AMBITIOUS FAIR-MINDED

LOVING RESOURCEFUL ARTISTIC FAITHFUL MATURE

RESPONSIBLE ASSERTIVE FIT MERRY ROBUST ATTRACTIVE

FLEXIBLE METHODICAL SELF-CONTROLLED BOLD FORGIVING

METICULOUS SENSIBLE BROAD-MINDED FREE MILD SEXY

CALM FRIENDLY MODERATE SINCERE CAPABLE FULFILLED

MODEST SOCIABLE CANDID FUNNY NATURAL SPECIAL

CAREFUL GENEROUS NEAT SPONTANEOUS CARING GENTLE

NON-JUDGMENTAL SPUNKY CAUTIOUS GLAD NURTURING

STABLE CHARMING GOOD-NATURED OPEN-MINDED STRONG

CHEERFUL GROWING OPTIMISTIC TACTFUL CHILDLIKE

HAPPY ORGANIZED TALENTED CLEAR-THINKING HEALTHY

ORIGINAL TENACIOUS CLEVER HELPFUL OUTGOING

THANKFUL COMPASSIONATE HONEST PATIENT THOROUGH

COMPETENT HOPEFUL PEACEFUL TOLERANT CONFIDENT

HUMOROUS PERSEVERING TRUSTING CONSCIENTIOUS

IDEALISTIC PERSISTENT TRUSTWORTHY CONSIDERATE

IMAGINATIVE PLEASANT UNDERSTANDING COOPERATIVE

INDEPENDENT POLITE UNINHIBITED COURAGEOUS

INDIVIDUALISTIC POSITIVE UNIQUE CREATIVE INDUSTRIOUS

PRACTICAL VERSATILE CURIOUS INFORMAL PRECISE WARM

DEPENDABLE INGENIOUS PROGRESSIVE WHOLE DETERMINED

INTELLIGENT PUNCTUAL WITTY DYNAMIC INVENTIVE

QUIET ZANY

3 Principals of which are always with us

Have you ever wondered as to why you are existing in this world ??? Did you ever think of Life's quality that we live?
Everyone has some or the other belief which stands as his/her checklist and which keeps correcting always.
I just want to jot down a few thoughts which i heard it from a Colonel . We see that every thing we do just revolves around the three points of truth ,Life , way.
These are the elements of our life.
Truth is something which we usually feel is bitter at times because it may have its own effects at times and it is really hard to accept truth. We simply give a new word for truth which now means "FACTS of LIFE". Yes! at times it's hard to gulp all the facts of life but it is really nice to see that we do feel relieved when we speak and utter right things in life. God has not made us robots, we still have the freedom to choose between right and wrong, good and bad- we need to decide. We are God's own hand-made creation and we do not descend from the apes and the monkeys. God is taken lots of time in making each and every one of us and this is TRUTH.
We see so many machines and electronic goods which man creates... all of them are just the same , they all are alike, no matter how much ever we change colours but everything that a man makes is the same. But that's not the case with God, he has made us unique and has taken a lot of time in making us special.

Life- ??
This is the second element.... God has not just created us , but he has given us life... even after we sinned and went away from God , His grace is abundant and he sent His Son to give us life .. and life in abundance...
It was said that a priest and a scientist (as there were only learned priests who were called as scientists) in 16 cent B.C. said that there are 13 dimensions... Ah! but no one took heed to his words. His theory was just written on paper but it wasn't accepted. Now , we all know that there are 4 dimensions(length, breadth, height, time) according to the science and experiments and the recent theories have stated that there are 13 dimensions and it is true by the Quantum Mechanics study.
Can you imagine if we had any one of these dimensions lacking in us....?
Can we think , how we would look if we had just the length,height and time as dimensions and we lacked from the dimension of breadth?

If we cannot just imagine how our life would be without these said dimensions , then imagine how painful would it be for our Heavenly Saviour to leave all this glory and riches and come to this sinful Earth just to save wretches like me and you. He has left all his glory, has left the authority and command , became like one among us and dwelt with us and yet was sinless.He paid the price for me , for my sins and has taken all the curse which was due to me. Life is now a clear one. A simple and plain life which had no sin in it. Every time we sin , we are getting away from God as He is sensitive to sin and withdraws himself from sin.

But He's always guiding us to see when we call HIM. He's anxious to see that we are waiting for HIS hand to be with us. This is the Way which we have to always tread along. Lord is awaiting for every one... with his arms open wide to be free from Sin , so that we'd be with Him ... because He loves us a lot....

God is always taking the pictures of ME from the wonderful heaven and So I am a Super Star for HIM....
He has Gifted all the blessings for me in a BIG BUNDLE called LIFE....

IF

IF you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:

If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;
If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: 'Hold on!'

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
' Or walk with Kings - nor lose the common touch,
if neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son!

Rudyard Kipling

You and ME ....

Lifehouse Lyrics
You And Me Lyrics

Big Bright Twenty-full life ?

They call it the "Quarter-life Crisis". It is when you stop going along with the crowd and start realizing that there are many things about yourself that you didn't know and may not like. You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared because you barely know where you are now. You start realizing that peple are selfish and that, maybe, those friends that you thought you were so close to aren't exactly the greatest people you have ever met, and the people you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones. What you don't recognize is that they are realizing that too, and aren't really cold, catty, mean or insincere, but that they are as confused as you. You look at your job....and it is not even close to what you thought you would be doing, or maybe you are looking for a job and realizing that you are going to have to start at the bottom and that scares you. Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what other are doing and find yourself judging more than usual because suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and are constantly adding things to your list of what is acceptable and what isn't. One minute, you are insecure and then the next, secure. You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone and scared and confused. Suddenly, change is the enemy and you try and cling on to the past with dear life, but soon realize that the past is drifting further and further away, and there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward. You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do such damage to you. Or you lay in bed and wonder why you can't meet anyone decent enough that you want to get to know better. Or maybe you love someone but love someone else too and cannot figure out why your are doing this because you know that you aren't a bad person. One nightstands and random hook ups start to look cheap. Getting wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic. You go through the same emotions and questions over and over, and talk with your friends about the same topics because you cannnot seem to make a decision. You worry about loans, money, the future and making a life for yourself....and while winning the race would be great, right now you'd just like to be a contender! What you may not realize is that everyone reading this relates to it. We are in our best of times and our worst of times, trying as hard as we can to figure this whole thing out.............

posted by rolyn

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Once reading all this , t'was as clear as it cud be, Life is definitely not a bad option though it is being manipulate with various other issues. But I was exactly in this situation last year. I kept pondering over and over.. pondering as to what is my future... the friends who promised to stay with me are now just become the shadows of my past.. there's but a lil happiness that i met them and cherished the most wonderful moments in life. Happiness always gets a load of sadness with it and so is the case with sadness.. It just moves... a 1 tear is more worthwhile than the rest 1000 tears which have not been recognized well!!! You really feel nice if there is someone next to you holding your hand and pampering you all the time.. every one needs this affection and is always filled with emotions which they cannot share.

Life is more of adjustments and compromises.. We have to sacrifice our love at some point , sacrifice our emotions and let them sink deep into our heart.

Life is an en-sample that we that we set out to many around us. It cud be good or bad..

Life's an ocean but we concentrate more on the lil drops of happiness and comfort and lil words of appreciation that can make us happy and remain in the pages of our life.

Life is God's Gift and we don't have any right to "name" gifts given to us.

Life is all about meeting many people in life.. It's how well we stay with them and when there's no reciprocation of deeds and emotions.... what should we do??? (Keep pondering 'ver this)

Life is a blank sheet ........ We have to fill in all colors to look pretty exciting....... Black 'n' White colors are not the only option in Life.

Life's all about transactions where we have to be accountable to every thing we do (be it verbal or thru' deeds .... and I am the worst person who never think before speaking, thereby hurting many )

Life's ................................................... only road that will show where we have to travel...

Life is all about making decisions , few for us , few for others.

Life's gamble .... so play it with ethics.... Hack it well.......

Life is what we make it by our words and ideas.. what we speak is what happens in our life...

Faith is the seed of successful life

The vows of friendship

· “friends forever” she said
“friends forever” he said
8 yrs old and they made the vow to remain friends forever

· “ I need some room” she said
“I’ll back away” he said
10 yrs old and they made the vow to give each other space

· “does Tommy like me?” she asked
“I’ll find out” he said
12 yrs old and he made the vow to find out if Tommy liked her

· “he doesn’t love me anymore” she said
“ he doesn’t deserve u” he said
14 yrs old and he made the vow to love her forever

· “nobody love me” she said
“I know someone who does” he said
16 yrs old and he made the vow to love her forever

· “im getting married” she said
“I’ll be there” he said
18 yrs old and he made the vow to forever hold his peace

· “I got divorced yesterday” she said
“im here for u” he said
20 yrs old and he made the vow to be there for her forever

· “why doesn’t anyone love me?” she asked
“I have always loved u” he said
22 yrs old and he made the vow to keep on loving her

· “I could never love u” she said
“ I could never stop” he said
24 yrs old and he made the vow to never love again

· “I can never see u again” she said
“I can never live again” he said
26 yrs old and he made the vow to never live again

· “im sorry” she said
28 yrs old and he made the vow as he lay in an open casket

Ecclesiastes 3:11- He hath made every thing beautiful in his time ...

Think of the time when you were left-out,isolated and deserted by your loved ones and you had no place to go and cover your face and weep loudly? Did you ever come across a time when you could just gulp your tears and cry without making sounds?

Every situation we encounter in life is pre-planned and is destined by God. If we are in such a situation we will be able to understand others well. Every thing is beautiful in its own place. I feel that even being alone is apt for certain situations. People may never understand our feelings but there is one good friend who will always walk with you, talk with you and always there for us, stretching his hand out towards us,even though life had deprived us of all that we are eligible for or has not been right in what we deserved for!

It is said that God will give all that is due to us in the due time, He is not a partial God who will differentiate among His own creation. He has gifted every one equally. There are many people who have never tasted the feeling of sorrow or unhappiness ,I personally feel that they are really unlucky to see all shades in life. God is not a moron person who has just give us a day or just has given one season to enjoy. He has made life so colourful. He has added all the brightness so that mankind can enjoy and cherish them all throughout his life. If our parents (who are so earthly , and are just like us - made from dust of the earth) give us the best, how much more care will our Heavenly Father take in making things so special and is it not His plan which situation would suit us at what time??

God makes everything beautiful in His time.... He'll always hold us , but its we who always are slipping from our paths. He has never hated anyone, He hates sin but loves sinners. He is full of compassion and always ready to look when His child will come back and cry for Him. He is always waiting patiently to look when we will call unto Him so that He will send His angels to rescue! Isn't is amazing to see that God cares for a person who is as wretched as he can be ? I think even our parents , these days will not spare us if we did something wrong , and the very next second they will cajole us. Same is our God , who has been so kind in making us what we are.

Just ponder on the time when we ate an ice-cream which we never liked , or our friend did some thing which we hated the most and when they never cared for our feelings and our words ? How would it feel , will you not be hurt and the heart that care for would it not be bruised ? God also wants us to never nag and grumble on the situation and the surroundings in which we are !He will will feel bad on us and we don't have any right to Hurt a person who loves us and Has given life's best things.

I dint know what happened to me and why I have correlated everything here... But one thing of sure i would like to convey is that We are GOD'S Awesome Creation and God had planned everything perfectly in our lives. Even though we are in bad/worst situation we should never pollute God and make Him feel sorry that he has created us.

I am the BEST creation and GOD has taken a great time in making me.....

Best way to feel happy even when you are sad....

~ Listen to songs that give life and make your adrenaline go high...
~ Recollect all your sweet memories that you had with your loved ones and friends...
~ Go out of our own world and mingle with people who hurt you the most....
~ Never compromise for anything.....
~ If u are a food lover/chocolate lover/ice cream lover eat them and eat them as though it is exclusively made for you and you have the sole ownership.. Enjoi whatever you eat.
~ Never show your weakness...... ALWAYS CRY WHEN YOU ARE ALONE... BECAUSE VERY FEW PEOPLE UNDERSTAND THE VALUE OF YOUR TEARS.... never be lousy to protect yourself.

~ THINK OF GOD's ABUNDANT BLESSINGS that HE has BESTOWED ON US .... LIFE IS ONE OF THE BIGGEST GIFT WHICH HE HAD GIVEN US.

~ LOVE GOD .... HE alone is worthy of your love and HE will be the only one who will reciprocate back with YOU in a very EFFECTIVE manner.....

~ GIVE GOD WHAT IS RIGHT AND NOT WHAT IS LEFT... HE's THE BEST....


~ The secret of life is not just to live but have something worthwhile to live for. We only live once but if we live right, once is enough

An Emotional message that i found very true when i was reading.....

Dont you hate it when you treat someone with love and affection but never get anything in return?

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This is something that really bothers me. If I don't feel close to someone than I tend to be a little careless and distant. However, when I actually start developing a bond with him/her I begin having strong feelings of affection and would constantly do things trying to make that person feel happy and loved. I'm talking about anyone who you might feel very strongly attached to such as friends, family, boyfriend, girlfriend etc. What really bugs me is when you often try to be thoughtful but never receive anything in return. It annoys me so much! You do these things to make this person happy but they dont care about your happiness or for any of your emotional needs. I mean I can understand if that person is always busy but than again can it really be so difficult to think of someone else at least once in a while. I believe that you should get the same love and attention that you are giving to others. I would certainly expect something in return and it's not that I'm being selfish or doing things only to benefit myself in some way but I feel that when you do things in effort to make someone else happy than it's a way of showing them that you care and if this is so difficult for anyone to do than perhaps they dont care about you as much as they say. I enjoy it very much when something I do makes the people I care for feel good about themselves but than again if they dont even bother to do the same than it would make you feel unloved and unable to get yourself to keep doing more for them than they would for you. I am not really a demanding person but when it comes to such matters than yes I guess I fit into this category. Anyway I dont think that you should wait until that person gets upset to the point where they have to mention something about it because they feel a lack of love and appreciation coming from the one who means the world to them. It's not an easy thing to confront anyone about this matter either. The truth is that even if you do manage to say something it wont make much of a difference if any at all. When people act this way I feel that they're being inconsiderate or just cannot get themselves to sympathize with you. Something like this would surely cause me to grow cold and I would need to hide into my shell trying to protect myself from them. The most annoying part is when they act like it's not a big deal and try to shrug it off. Not only that but they add things such as "I really care about you" into the conversation which confuses me to no end. I hate liars and besides how is the other person supposed to know that you really care about them if you seem to value them the same as dirt. Most of the time I have noticed that people just do more to please you when there's something they want. You hope that they'd want to do it because they care but often that's not the case at all. How careless can another person possibly get? It's just showing how cold he/she is. Some people may say that not everyone is good at showing emotions but than again can it really be so hard to provide someone with reassurance and showing them that they actually mean something to you unless of course that's not really how you feel about that person in the first place. Tiny little thoughtful gestures really wont kill anyone. Well I guess a lot of this has to do with how different people are from each other. Almost always the individuals I have been closest to have had personalities much different from my own. Such differences have always gotten in the way causing conflict to arise. It's not that any person is right or wrong but if their views of life contradict than feelings are at risk of getting injured. In my opinion it's better to try and get close to those similar to yourself because this way there will be a better understanding from both sides and feelings would be spared.

Treasure hunt

Just think of a day when you woke up recollecting the dream that you drempt !! ...
hmmmm I don't know how many of us really think of what we have drempt.Life is too short and there are many things that surround us once we are involved in our daily schedule.
If you are the one who wants to travel somewhere where no one can disturb you , where you just want to gaze at the wonders of Nature probably you do not have penny in you pocket but dreams are the best place which will help us carry all through.
Life is a good teacher and dreams are the best part of life. It's not that we need to always laze around and never work.
My best time is dreaming and recollecting them as soon as I am off from my bed. It makes me feel good when Life has gifted the wonderful night's sleep and a imaginary place where i can be all my self, where no one will be behind me nor will any body disturb me.
Dreams are the best part of my life. I have had many a times recollected my dreams and have shared them with my friends.
Life just moves on....
We should take time and recollect every moment of life..
So give wings to dreams....and fly to the utmost part of the world...Like the butterfly

Silence .... ?? ? ?

This is one word which I can never practice in my life ....
Life is full of color, vigor and filled with joy and happiness..... So what is the need to keep silence ?
This is an unrecognized word that I can digest.There were many times that made me silent but I can't stay with it for too many days.Living in silence is like suiciding one's own self.
Turning my pages back, I can just count a handful of times that i sat silent and this was so bad, miserable.
Our life id in our hands. We can enjoy it to the full core or just sit mumb always and never utter a word or two even if your value is degraded.
Silence is a silent killer. It will take long time to make you weak and when you are in distress you will have no one around you to support you. You will not have any courage to even stand up for yourself.It is true to be silent but it is not true to remain always silent.Once you are silent you are trying to suppress all your feeling sin your heart.Feeling if suppressed,stir up strife against the person whom your angry with.Life indeed is not bed of roses but you have to make those roses to spread out the fragrance to the outside world , once you look at the thorns you will never be in a position to enjoy the beauty of the rose.
Life is what to want it to be. God has not been partial to anyone, nor has he given a person less happiness. He is universal Creator of everyone and has taken lot of care in making every one so special that no one has every thought about this! God is never partial, we are responsible of designing our lives and we should never give a chance so that in the long run we have to repent on ourselves. So live life to the fullest. Use some curves called "smile" so that the straight and boring lives will get a new look. This will indeed make us feel good Because God has made every one special and God loves you.